A Little Bit About Me
Salam there!
*This profile is for the ones who actually have put in the effort to write an interesting and detailed profile and possess the patience to read in depth profiles and truly desire getting to know the people for who they are*
As a hopeless romantic and optimistic realist ? (Can I be both? Maybe there is a spectrum?), I am hopeful that a healthy, loving, fulfilling and respectful relationship is possible with the right companion—a deep, soulful connection with attraction that feels right and easy. This is what happens when you love watching Youtubers and Travel vlogger couples and romantic drama series from all over the world ( K dramas , Taiwanese, Turkish, Malaysian, Indonesian movies and sinetrons, Telenovelas, Argentinian, and Pakistan dramas).
Also, by grace of Allah, I am grateful to have or had great examples of men with great character in my life, including my late father. Alhamdulillah! The pandemic I believe has taught us about human connection and how not to take relationships with loved ones for granted.
If you are expressive, have a growth mindset, likes in depth convos and fosters human connections, have high tolerance for people and changes in life then I think we would be a great team! Basically, going through life’s joys and hardships with the warm and fuzzy feels :)
I want to inshaAllah bring peace, calmness, sparkle, and shimmer in your world and at times a little bit of masala!
No replies to pic requests or a message asking to see my photos without sending substantial messages. Also, my brother would be approving as to who gets to see my photos :) Yes, I have enlisted him as my pre-screener :)
I am optimistic that I will be the best match for someone who has lived most of their lives in Canada (Toronto, Ontario) ,US, UK, Saudi, and Dubai and for that person, it will be easier for them to get me:) Depending on the connection, open to relocation.
So...who am I and what makes me 'me'?
A creative analyzer- I view my art as my self expression and way to connect to others. Love the process of repurposing and upcycling-DIY. I love creating interesting and beautiful decor in shades of purple and sparkly, shimmery things.
I am a real person and not an IG beauty or figment of fantasy. So, if you want a real person to connect with and also have fun kicking with ...then what are you waiting for?:)
For my safety and comfort, I will only share my PHOTOS when I FEEL COMFORTABLE-
I prefer video chats over photos and when the family or a family member is around to keep it halal.
Physically, I am known for my smile with dimples, hair, and am a tall woman (5'8) Masha Allah. I am NOT thin or a petite and narrow South Asian Canadian woman.
---------------------IMPORTANT NOTES---------------------:
-*****Please NO creepy/disrespectful questions, inappropriate comments, or offensive remarks that you will not utter in front of your parents or in public, e.t.c. I still can't fathom why would anyone want to come across like a disgraceful person. I am still figuring this out...a head scratcher for sure. Please, keep in mind your women in the family (mother, sisters, aunts, cousins, etc.) and remember I am also someone's precious and respected daughter and sister. Thank you for the respect.********
***Parents or siblings, feel free to contact me !
*There WILL be early family involvement during the "getting-to-know" phase..I want the potential guy to be proudly known to my family and I expect the same.
* I am not in the position to sponsor anyone to Canada.
Anyhoo...now we got that out of the way, moving along...
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What I Am Looking For
You are the following:
-someone who actually READS my profile!!!
-someone who can actually string interesting sentences together in your message other than Hi, sup, can I c pix? I like mentally stimulating convos...not the ones who put me to zzzzzzzzzzzzz... If you only message me saying, “hi” or “Salam” and have nothing more to break the ice with, then you know why I might not reply:) Let’s have great and deep, fulfilling convos rather than only mundane small talk. I want to get to know and appreciate most versions of “you”:)
-love watching foreign films/dramas with subtitles :D No harm in wishing lol
-*****someone who doesn't ask creepy/disrespectful questions, make inappropriate comments, or offensive remarks ,e.t.c. Why would you even want to come across like a disgraceful person? I am still figuring this out...a head scratcher for sure. Please, keep in mind your women in the family (mother, sisters, aunts, cousins, etc.) and remember I am also someone's precious and respected daughter and sister. Thank you for the respect.********,
-the type who can be a big kid like me but also can be an adult
- question for you: how are you going to make my life interesting??
-you are looking for your best friend and can handle her outspoken opinions and strong spirit mashaAllah.
- you are someone who is truthful about obvious details such as his photos (posts recent photos-not from 10 or 15 years ago!), age, height, marital status,job, etc, lives in Canada, US, or UK and is a permanent resident or Citizen (someone who has spent his preteen and teen years in these countries) and is willing to settle down if things go well, Insha Allah
What are you waiting for? Let's make this happen! You know what to do...drop me a message :-)
Good luck to you all! Salam and Allah Hafiz.
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